Prayer at Resurrection

There’s no question that Jesus made a lot of enemies as his presence disrupted the power-imbalance of that time. What always fascinated me was that Jesus prayed for the very people that sought to kill him. Soon his enemies would seek to crucify him and as Jesus hangs from the cross, he utters the words, “forgive them for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). When someone deeply wrongs me, my first inclination is to angrily curse them instead of pray for them, as Jesus does here. How different Jesus’ way truly is compared to our way. I’ve counseled a number of people who have been wronged and have had a hard time finding forgiveness in their heart. As they share their stories, I often empathize with them in my mind and understand their desire for justified revenge. Yet, as I look at how the anger has consumed them, and how I think about how anger has consumed my heart in the past, I can’t help but recognize that anger and revenge is not life-giving and clearly not God’s will. Jesus offers us here the alternative of praying for the people who have wronged us instead of cursing them. If Jesus can muster up the strength to genuinely pray for the people who crucified him, surely we can find the strength to pray for those who have wronged us in ways that pale in comparison to the crucifixion. The burden and anger that is placed upon your heart will surely lift over time if you are genuinely praying for your aggressors and perhaps their heart will lighten as well through the grace of God. If you want some further perspective on this, then answer this question… Who was it that Jesus was praying for when he was being crucified on the cross for our Sin?

When I was a fundraising director for an organization in college, I initially had a hard time asking people for money.  I thought I was inconveniencing them and would always try to find indirect ways to do the fundraising.  This was a barrier that got in the way of my ability to do my job to the fullest and, quite frankly, it was a barrier that I had to overcome.  I had a conversation with the previous director who asked me a couple questions that helped me deal with this – he asked, “Do you believe in the organization and what it is trying to do?”   I answered yes.  “Do you think that others will believe in what the organization is trying to do?”  I answered yes.  “So don’t deny them the chance to become a partner in what we are doing here,” he finally said.  I needed to have that conversation in order to overcome this barrier, and that year we raised 10% more funds than the previous year.

Relating this to our prayer lives, each of us have barriers that get in the way of us praying and connecting to God in the fullest.  Since we can seemingly get through life OK without improving our prayer life, many of us often don’t deal with those prayer barriers.  If you desire to only have a mediocre prayer life and a mediocre relationship with God, then I suppose that’s OK.   On the other hand, if you thirst for a better prayer life, then I encourage you to expose your barriers to a loved one or to someone you look up to spiritually.  Talk about the barrier and problem-solve on how to overcome it.  Perhaps you think prayer is boring or wonder if prayer even matters at all.  Maybe you don’t feel like you have the time to pray or just flat out don’t know how to.  Whatever the barrier, talking about it is the first step towards overcoming it.

As I continue to offer “Prayer Tips” in 2010, I invite you to email me (michael.maroon@cor.org) or comment here on the blog about what your own prayer barriers are so that the tips will be relevant and transforming for our congregation (if you have a barrier to prayer, I promise you that others share that same barrier).  In the future, I hope that these prayer tips can serve as a starting point for conversations about our prayer lives on the prayer blog.  Also know that your pastors are here to help you overcome these barriers if you would like to get in touch or setup an appointment with your pastorate pastor.

There are times when I can feel like my prayers are just lip service and other times when it feels as if it is my heart praying the words instead of my mouth.  As I’ve been praying for the people in Haiti, I’ve noticed something.  My prayers have almost been tear-led as I empathize and imagine the suffering that the Haitians are going through.  It’s almost as if I am praying from their perspective and my heart is connected with them and with God in a way that seems more powerful and meaningful than other prayers.  I have a stronger sense that my prayers are being heard by God as God feels the true compassion that I feel for these hurting people. 

I hope that you have felt this sense of connectedness with the Haitians and with God during your most recent prayers.  If not, then I invite you to imagine what it would feel like to lose a child or mother in such a tragedy, or what it would feel like to be pinned under concrete for 50 hours without food or water before you were rescued.  What would it feel like to not know if family and loved ones survived or not?  Now that you’ve pondered such things, you are ready to pray for your Haitian Brothers and Sisters.  Praying for others begins with empathizing and having compassion for what others are going through.  I am thankful to be partnered with you in prayer as we continue to lift up those who were affected by this terrible tragedy. 

Michael Maroon, Pastor of Prayer

St. Benedict writes regarding prayer, “Whenever we want to ask a favor of someone powerful, we do it humbly and respectfully, for fear of presumption. How much more important, then, to lay our petitions before the God of all with the utmost humility and sincere devotion.”
Often times we go to God in prayer as if God was a buddy of ours. Of course it’s true that God is our friend. But I have some friends who I am very ‘chummy’ with and other friends for whom I have a deep admiration and respect.  God is certainly a friend who deserves admiration and respect. When we offer up our petitions and concerns to God, we ought to remember that we are going before the one who created us, redeemed us and sustains us! Although God welcomes us before God’s throne with a loving openness, we should still strive to go before that throne “humbly and respectfully,” as Benedict instructs us. Going before God with humility and respect shows God that we understand and appreciate all God is, and that we have no desire to convey a sense of casual disrespect or conditional expectation.
When someone brings a concern before you with humility and respect, how do you respond? I hope it moves you to show that person the same respect and drives you towards an appreciation for who that person is and a compassion for what that person is going through. On the other hand, what about the person who comes before you with an expectation in such a casual way that there is no recognition of the time, energy and compassion that will flow out of you to meet their expectation? Perhaps you will meet their expectation anyway, but it would probably be difficult to do it with a pure heart (although God always does – how much greater God is than us!).
I encourage you to remember the gravitas of who God is as you go to God in prayer. The mere fact that our God, the author of all Creation, invites each of us to be in a personal and communal relationship with God is humbling enough. May we continue in that humility and respect as we go to our loving and welcoming God with our souls’ needs and concerns.

–Rev. Michael Maroon, Pastor of Prayer Ministries

The other day a scripture sort of popped out to me as I had the prayer tip in mind – Luke 6:12-13.  It reads, “Now during those days [Jesus] went out to the mountain to pray; and he spent the night in prayer to God.  And when day came, he called his disciples and chose twelve of them, whom he also named apostles…”

Selecting the 12 apostles was an important decision for Jesus to make.  He recognized that these 12 would be instrumental in carrying the Gospel message forward towards the inception of Christ’s Church.  This was so important, in fact, that Jesus spent an entire night in prayer over this decision so that he would have no doubt about his selections.  It is affirming for me to know that Jesus spent so much time in prayer about his apostles – it reinforces the idea that each apostle was there to serve a particular role for the sake of God’s will.

Although it isn’t every day that we are faced with such a lofty decision to make, we could still follow the prayerful model that Jesus displays in our own lives.  When you are faced with important decisions, how often do you lift it up to God to allow God’s direction and input into the mix?  When you do lift up an important decision, are you praying for God to ‘bless’ your own direction or is your heart truly open to whatever direction God would have you go?  As we look forward to a new year, I invite you to make God part of your decision-making process at work, at home and in your own personal lives as you seek to live out God’s will for your own life.   

Michael Maroon,  Pastor of Prayer

Light has been brought into the world through the birth of Jesus Christ!  We no longer have to feel like we are facing darkness alone, for Christ is with us, as is the Church!  A new year is on the horizon and with it will come incredible moments of joy as well as moments of sorrow.  I want to take a moment to remind you that your church family wants to celebrate those joys with you and help shoulder the hardships.  The Prayer Ministry and its many volunteers take prayer very seriously.  With the exception of the requests marked confidential, every prayer request that we receive is prayed over by pastors, congregational care ministers and prayer volunteers.  We want to be in prayerful relationships with each one of you.  This year, I encourage you to invite the power of your church family praying for you into your lives.  If you have been truly blessed by God, I hope you submit a prayer request so that we can give thanks to the Lord together and be in celebration with you!  Likewise, if hard times have fallen on you or your loved ones, I do hope that it can be made known to the prayer ministry so that we can lift you and your loved ones up in prayer and help shoulder the burden in whatever way we can.  We are, indeed, one body in Christ.  When you celebrate, so do we!  When you hurt, we hurt too.  It brings us a sense of unity when we can weather our journey together as one body.  You can fill out prayer requests online at www.cor.org/prayer. On behalf of the prayer ministry, we look forward to lifting you up in prayer in 2010.

If prayer is an important part of your life and you recognize its importance in the life of the Church, I encourage you to consider volunteering in the prayer ministry.  You can view volunteer opportunities on the Church of the Resurrection prayer web page.

Michael Maroon, Pastor of Prayer

Ahh the Christmas season… the lights… the Christmas carols… the traffic!?!  By now, many of you have felt the frustration building up from your car’s break pedal, up your leg, through your spine and into your brain only to release it through the occasional “honk” of the horn (hopefully that’s all you do!).  Christmas traffic can sometimes bring out the worst in us.  In a time when we are supposed to be all about Hope, Peace, Joy and Love, we find ourselves hoping that we can find peace so that we don’t joyfully ram the guy in front of us, for the Love of God!  I might suggest a more faithful alternative –   Recognize your time in traffic as a gift!  Perhaps you have been so busy preparing for Christmas that your prayer time has been a little lacking.  The time you spend in the car can be just as prayerful as the quiet time kneeling at home.  I invite you to turn down the 24/7 Christmas carols and spend your journey in prayerful dialogue with God.  Are you out shopping for a particular person?  Perhaps this prayer time could be spent praying for that friend or family member who, in addition to the tie and socks you plan to get them, really needs to know that God is with them during this trying time in their life.   Or perhaps your prayer time in the car can be spent reflecting on the authentic Hope, Peace, Joy and Love that was brought into this world through Christ.  May God bless you this week – even in the car -  as we lead up to the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ!

Pastor Michael Maroon, Pastor of Prayer and Congregational Care

You probably think of prayer as a quiet activity.  In church we often refer to our prayer time as “quiet time.”  Peaceful, quiet prayer and meditation can calm our spirits and focus our minds on God’s presence. This week, though, try praying out loud, making some noise in praise and worship God with your voice and body. Move around and shake things up a bit!

A good way to do this is to start with a Psalm.  You can sing it, or just read it aloud in a good, strong voice.  Stand up and walk around. Dance if you feel like it! Lift your hands up and praise God with ancient words that still ring true today.  Here are some good Psalms for this kind of prayer:  Psalm 95, Psalm 96, Psalm 98.  Another great passage to pray out loud is Luke 1:46-55 -  Mary’s Song.

Focus on the words as you pray them. Read them through more than once, putting emphasis on different parts of the passage. Add your own words to those of the Psalmist or Gospel writer. Imagine yourself standing in the stable in Bethlehem, looking upon the miracle of the newborn savior, or on the hill with the shepherds as the angels sing. What would you say?  How loud would you say it?!

At the end of your prayer time, recite the Lord’s Prayer, listening and thinking about every familiar word.  Use this different style of prayer any time you feel like you need to “wake up” your prayer time and enjoy the gift of your voice and the opportunity to offer prayer and praise to the Creator of the Universe.

Jennifer Creagar, Congregational Care and Prayer Ministry

It’s been said if we really want to know what our priorities are, we should look at our calendar, or date book, or wherever we keep our daily appointments and “to do” lists. Open yours up and take a look. What does it tell about the things that are most important to you? In Philippians 4:12-13, Paul says that he has learned how to be content with what he has, how to live in plenty or in want. “Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am.” (The Message). Paul developed priorities that made him content, and knew his first priority was his relationship with God. Does daily prayer and the reading of scripture show up on your calendar or planner? Making a true appointment, written on paper or saved in an electronic file, emphasizes the importance of daily time with God. Most of us have many things competing for our time and energy. It is so easy for other meetings, tasks, or distractions to push daily prayer and scripture out to the edges of our lives. Seeing it on the calendar reminds us to protect that time from something less important, but more distracting. Set a time and a place for prayer, and hold it as your most important appointment of the day. That priority appointment with “the One who makes me who I am” can set the tone for the rest of the day and lead us to true contentment with whatever the day does or does not bring.
–Jennifer Creagar, Resurrection Prayer Ministries

We are often so busy that it is hard for us to take time out to connect with God. When we finally do have the chance to take a break in the midst of our busy days, we often feel guilty if we aren’t doing something “productive.” Edward Hays, author of “Pray All Ways,” recognizes this human ailment and prescribes for us what he calls the “prayer of napping.” We see Jesus practicing this prayer while in a boat during a windstorm in Mark 4:38. Resting in the midst of a storm seems difficult, at best, and yet Jesus models this for us as a way of remaining faithful and remembering that God is in control. When his disciples wake him in fear during the storm, he asks them, “Why are you afraid? Have you still no faith?” (Mk 4:40). Storms will always be a part of life; usually they are when we need time with God the most. , As we are going through our own storms (in the work place, in our relationships or elsewhere), are we taking time for spiritual rest, as Jesus modeled for us? This could be a 10-minute walk outside during a busy day at the office, or closing your eyes for 30 minutes when you put your children down for a nap. When we take a break from the chaos of life, we are acknowledging that God is in control and that everything will be just fine if we check out briefly to gain some rest and rejuvenate our souls. I hope that you can take time to pray in the form of a break from the chaos to experience the peace of Christ throughout your busy days.
–Rev. Michael Maroon, Pastor of Prayer Ministries